Prevention & Education

Protect Your Children — Knowledge Is the Best Defense

Research shows that children who receive age-appropriate safety education are significantly more likely to recognize abuse, resist grooming, and report incidents. Start the conversation today.

The 6 Body Safety Rules for Children

1

My body belongs to ME

No one has the right to touch your body without your permission. You are the boss of your body.

2

Private parts are private

The parts covered by a bathing suit are private. No one should touch or look at them except a doctor (with a parent present).

3

No means NO

You have the right to say no to any touch that feels wrong, uncomfortable, or unsafe — even from people you know and love.

4

No unsafe secrets

Safe secrets are surprises (like birthday gifts). Unsafe secrets are about touching your body. Always tell a trusted adult.

5

It's never your fault

If someone touches you in an unsafe way, it is NEVER your fault. You will not be in trouble for telling.

6

Tell, tell, tell

If something happens, tell a trusted adult right away. Keep telling until someone helps you.

Talking to Your Child by Age Group

Age-appropriate conversations about body safety are one of the most effective tools for preventing child sexual abuse. Select an age group below.

Safety Tips for Ages 2–5

  • 1
    Teach children the correct anatomical names for body parts — this reduces shame and helps them communicate clearly if something happens.
  • 2
    Introduce the concept of 'private parts' — areas covered by a bathing suit belong to them alone.
  • 3
    Teach the difference between safe and unsafe touch. Safe touches feel good and are okay (hugs from family). Unsafe touches hurt or feel wrong.
  • 4
    Establish the rule: no one touches your private parts except a doctor (with a parent present) or a caregiver helping with hygiene.
  • 5
    Practice saying 'No!' loudly and clearly. Role-play scenarios where they practice asserting boundaries.
  • 6
    Teach children to always tell a trusted adult if anyone touches them inappropriately — and that they will never be in trouble for telling.

Grooming Warning Signs

Grooming is a process by which an offender gradually gains the trust of a child (and often their family) to facilitate abuse. Recognizing these signs early can prevent harm.

Excessive attention and gift-giving

Offenders often 'groom' children by giving special attention, gifts, money, or privileges to build trust and create a sense of obligation.

Seeking one-on-one time

Persistent attempts to be alone with a child, away from other adults or parents, is a major red flag.

Boundary testing

Gradually pushing physical boundaries — 'accidental' touches, tickling, wrestling — to normalize physical contact.

Secret-keeping

Asking a child to keep secrets, especially about physical contact, conversations, or meetings.

Undermining parental authority

Positioning themselves as more understanding than parents; encouraging the child to confide in them instead of parents.

Excessive interest in a child's sexuality

Discussing sexual topics, showing sexual material, or asking about the child's sexual development or experiences.

Isolation tactics

Attempting to separate the child from peers and family, creating emotional dependency on the offender.

Online contact with minors

Adults seeking private online communication with children, especially on gaming platforms, Discord, Snapchat, or Instagram DMs.

Online Predator Red Flags

Online predators use social media, gaming platforms, and messaging apps to target children. Teach your child to recognize these warning signs immediately.

An adult you don't know in real life wants to be your 'special friend' online
Someone asks you to keep your online conversations secret from your parents
An adult asks for your photo, especially photos of your body
Someone offers gifts, money, or gaming credits in exchange for photos or meeting in person
An adult online claims to 'understand you better than your parents do'
Someone asks you to move the conversation to a private or encrypted app
An adult asks where you live, what school you go to, or when you're home alone
Someone sends you sexual images or asks you to send them
An adult online wants to meet you in person without your parents knowing
Someone threatens to share your photos or information if you don't do what they want

Teach your child: If anyone online makes you feel uncomfortable, scared, or confused — close the app immediately and tell a trusted adult. You will NEVER be in trouble for reporting this.

Warning Signs a Child May Be Experiencing Abuse

Children rarely disclose abuse directly. Watch for these behavioral and physical changes. If you notice several of these signs, take action immediately.

Sudden changes in behavior or personality
Nightmares, sleep disturbances, or fear of going to bed
Regression to younger behaviors (bedwetting, thumb-sucking)
Age-inappropriate sexual knowledge or behavior
Unexplained physical symptoms (pain, bleeding, bruising in genital area)
Withdrawal from friends, family, or activities they used to enjoy
Excessive fear of a specific person or place
Reluctance to be alone with a specific adult
Sudden changes in school performance
Running away from home or expressing desire to do so
Self-harm, depression, or suicidal thoughts
Unexplained gifts, money, or new possessions

If You Suspect Abuse — Act Now

If you believe a child is being abused, do not wait. Contact authorities immediately. You do not need to be certain — that is for investigators to determine.

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